Showing posts with label Money and Anxiety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Money and Anxiety. Show all posts

Friday, March 7, 2014

Anxiety and Athletes

When people struggle with anxiety it usually comes with a heavy feeling of loneliness. The fact is that know matter who you are or how much you have accomplished in your life you are still a human being. Athletes are no different. Here is a great article highlighting the struggles of athletes as well.

http://sportsmedicine.about.com

Overcoming Performance Anxiety with Sports Psychology

Sports psychology tips can help you overcome performance anxiety in sports

 
Do you perform well during training or practice but choke in competition? If feelings of nervousness, anxiety or fear interfere with your sports performance, learning to use a few tips from sports psychology may help you get your anxiety under control and reduce game day nerves.
Performance anxiety in sports, sometimes referred to as 'choking,'is described as a decrease in athletic performance due to too much perceived stress. Perceived stress often increases in athletes on game day because (1) they have an audience and (2) they have extremely high expectations of their success. This type of stress is often based upon the way the athletes interpret the situation. It is rarely the external situation that causes stress, but rather the way the athlete's self talk describes the situation that creates feelings of stress, anxiety and fear. For athletes who choke during competition it is important to understand that the thoughts you have regarding the event can be modified, adjusted or controlled with appropriate sports psychology and mental practice. An athlete should first determine if thoughts of doubt, failure or a lack of confidence are due to a perceived lack of ability. If so, the self talk will generally lead to continued feelings of anxiety, nervousness, and tension. Athlete need to realize that it's tough to do your best in a sport when your own internal voice is telling you otherwise. To overcome performance anxiety, traditional coaches and trainers may try to help the athlete understand why those thoughts and feelings develop and then try to change or modify that process with limited amounts of success. Why such thoughts arise may be of interest, but knowing the answer isn't always necessary to overcome them.

Sports Psychology Tips to Help Reduce Performance Anxiety

Here are a few tips that may help change or redirect the negative self-talk.

Reduce Performance Anxiety Before the Event

  • Recognize that pre-race jitters are normal. Accept, rather than fight, the nervous energy you feel. Don't misinterpret it by thinking that it is fear. That adrenaline rush you feel is normal and it is part of your body's natural preparation for the competition. Notice it, but don't focus on it. Once the race starts, that feeling will subside, as it always does.
  • Prepare both mentally and physically. Arrive at the event with plenty of time so you aren't rushed, which only increases your stress. Get a thorough warm-up. Do some easy stretching. Know the course. Dress for conditions.
  • Visualize. Allow a few minutes to practice visualization. During this time you mentally rehearse, showing yourself doing everything right. Breathe easy, close your eyes and use mental imagery to visualize yourself performing well. This positive self-talk can change your attitude. While athletes need to be flexible enough to react during the event, you should enter the event with a general strategy of how you want to race. Your strategy can be simple (maintain a steady pace or maintain a steady heart rate) or complex.

Reduce Performance Anxiety During the Event

  • Focus on the task at hand rather than the outcome. Stay present in the moment and avoid thinking too far into the event or thinking about the finish. If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts or negative self-talk, stop and focus only on your breathing. Focusing on your breathing rhythm will automatically pull you back into the present.
  • Force a smile. Really. If you are struggling with negative thoughts and can't break out of the cycle, simply force yourself to smile, even if only for a few seconds. This simple action will change your attitude in a split second. Perhaps that is all the time you need to relax back into your performance.

  • Race like you don't care about the outcome. If you find yourself caught up in negative thoughts and find that you suddenly expect the worst it will be impossible to perform at your peak. If you begin to race like you don't care about the outcome, you may relax and enjoy the event for what it is - another day in your life. Not the most important thing in your life.
  • Reduce Performance Anxiety After the Event:

    • Review the race and recall the things you did well. Focus on actions, thoughts and behaviors that helped you perform.
    • Acknowledge, but quickly dismiss things that hindered your performance. This is the same principle as avoiding an obstacle while driving - look where you want to go, not where you don't. When you focus on the pothole, you invariably hit it. Focusing on the negative aspects of the event will not help you improve in the future. Rather, you want to focus on the times when you 'got it right.' This is a form of mental rehearsal where you practice skills that will be used in the next event.
    • Design a training program that mimics race-like conditions. Teams and clubs often do such training. If you always train alone, consider joining a group so you can do this type of simulation. Practice is most effective if you can mimic the conditions you will be faced with in competition. Coaches can also help or hinder an athlete's ability to overcome choking during competition. Coaches often inadvertently reinforce a pattern of choking when trying to encourage ("the next shot is critical"). Such talk only increases the pressure an athlete feels to perform.
     
  • Remember that choking can be dealt with if you are aware of the pattern of negative thoughts that snowball before and during competition. If you find yourself in such a downward spiral, simply acknowledge those thoughts and let them go. Focus on your breathing and play as though you are enjoying it. Chances are you will realize that you are enjoying it despite the occasional less than perfect performance.

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Anxiety Treatment Resources

When dealing with Anxiety many people look to place for great information and here is a well respected and trusted site.

http://www.webmd.com

Anxiety & Panic Disorders Health Center


Treatment & Care

Treatment

Getting help for anxiety -- as early as possible-- gives you the best chance for recovery. Learn more about treatment.
Here is one woman’s story about overcoming generalized anxiety disorder. She will inspire you to get help.
Antidepressants, antianxiety, antipsychotic and stimulant medications are all prescribed for anxiety disorders. Here’s what you should know.
Work through problems, develop coping skills, and gain greater sense of control over your life. Learn more about the benefits of therapy.
This therapy helps people overcome phobias, fears, and anxiety. If you’re not familiar with hypnotherapy, you may be surprised by what you read here.
What role should alternatives play in treating mood disorders? Experts weigh in.
Relaxation techniques may work just as well as anti-anxiety medications. Read on to learn more.

Care

Here are tips on finding the right therapist to help you. This link will take you to a web site that can help.
This listing service provides names of psychologists, psychiatrists, therapists, and counselors – located in your area -- who can help. This link will take you to the web site.
Providing support and patience can help a loved one work through an anxiety disorder. This link will take you to a web site that can help.
Children cope with the same emotions you do. This link will take you to a web site that can help you understand.

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Anxiety and NLP Videos




One of the founders of NLP Dr. John Grinder





This is great for changing the way your mind reacts to different situations and it can even help you change your past bad memories.

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Anxiety & Money

Money and Anxiety with most people go hand and hand.

8 Cures for Money Anxiety  by Koorosh Ostowari

On any given day, you could be diagnosed with cancer, get run over by a drunk driver or be a victim of a drive-by shooting.

Money anxiety disorder lies at the heart of so many of the disruptions that occur in our lives, our society and our world. It can be triggered by events like fluctuations in the marketplace, losing a job, having to ask for a raise, enduring a divorce or simply struggling to stay on budget.
Like the economy itself, our anxiety about money fluctuates, but we don’t have to be at the mercy of it. We can learn to cope with unpredictable financial times and stop the panic.
But we can’t evolve if we don’t take some kind of risk.
We must risk failure, love, approval and desire. And things may not work out in the way we plan or fantasize. We may have the best of intentions to choose and embrace a plan or go forward with a great project, yet there is always a risk. This is true for life in general and it’s definitely true in our spiritual relationship to money.

Just when we think we have enough money, a project falls through, an unexpected bill shows up or there is a natural disaster that derails us.

In our financial lives, there are so many variables. Hurricanes, earthquakes, tsunamis and fires come unexpectedly and destroy lives and millions of dollars worth of property on a regular basis around the world. None of this is personal.

On any given day, you could be diagnosed with cancer, get run over by a drunk driver or be a victim of a drive-by shooting. There are risks inherent in just being alive, let alone all the other risks that we have to take in our dealings with work and money.
The heart of prosperity sees this, somehow embraces it and in some ways even moves toward it. This way, we face our fears directly and recognize through practice that what makes life exciting, interesting and worth living is the many unknowns and risks.
We must always be prepared for the changes that come with each passing cycle. All aspects of impermanence can be transformative. They can all lead to deep prosperity if we are centered and balanced. The world gives us many tools with which to better prepare ourselves. The Buddha calls this “cultivating skillful means."

Using skillful means to approach your financial life will ultimately benefit all parts of your life. Here are some things to keep in mind:

1. Don’t lose faith.
Things will eventually change for the better. Keep moving forward, even if it means you have to start over from scratch. Imagine the worst that might happen and sit with this image until it no longer frightens you.
2. Stay calm as you plan your financial future.
Take regular breaks to breathe and collect your thoughts to ground and center yourself. Feel the earth solid under your feet.
3. Invest time getting to know people in your community.
Especially if you plan on asking them for favors. People are less guarded and more willing to help and support you when they feel your sincerity. Explore to what extent you are open and generous, how it feels and what it looks like. Explore to what extent you are not open and generous and how it feels and what it looks like.
4. Invest in expanding your knowledge and wisdom not just around the subject of money, but around yourself.
It’s the highest form of investment you can make in yourself.
5. Retreat.
Enjoy the harvest of the good investment decisions you made during the slow times. Slow down and fill up your spiritual bank account. As you start saving and investing, manage your money wisely; keep them it optimally so you can take advantage of the inevitable downturn. This is a mindfulness practice in itself. Instead of the focus being on the breath and thoughts coming and going, you can practice being with the flow of your finances and choose to make wise decisions that have a wholesome financial outcome.
6. Be generous.
Especially if you tend to hold onto money! Give time, energy, support and money to those in need. Remember to maintain compassionate boundaries. Being generous does not mean rescuing others, as this may actually prevent them from learning how to make it in the world.
7. Be a lighthouse.
Allow your love, kindness, wisdom, clarity and compassion to flow out of you freely so others will become inspired.
8. Flow.
When you encounter a rock in the stream, flow around it. Remember the lessons of nature and use them

For more great tips head to The Elephant Journal